my wife doesn't care when i'm sick

I think the non spouse has to be less of a giver and move to the attitude of-I'm in this life for myself just like you demonstratedaily that are in it for yourself. I actually yelled at him, told him how selfish he is. Thats It was our 25th anniversarythe month after I returned and of course, I went all out. Here is another way to think about it. I don't believe the behavior is intentional in my case. I bet if I got cancer he'd go "Great! Yes, I chose someone who couldn't love,or who chose NOT to love. I jokingly call(ed) her "Florence Nightingale" because even others would notice how completely oblivious she was/is to any illness or discomfort on my part. Need help with your relationship? "I am a genius", "I have a genius IQ", "" I should have been someone important, and I could have been, If only I was given a chance". He threatened to sue me and the doctor because the kid had to go temporarily on multiple antibiotics to help knock down the infections. People are either takers or givers. A place for sharing the for-better and for-worse of marriage. (maybe?). It took me 27 years to stop being jealous when he treated other women better than me and hyperfocused on gadgets and not me. I have been enlightened and no longer feel alone. I'm tired . Maybe I was expecting something like that. I do agree with you. Thankfully, our two children were happy to help me. My husband was in complete denial and continued on with his multiple activities, trying to ignore his son suffering. Not flu/COVID/serious illness. This is a never ending cycle that doesn't ever stop. This is the response of a person who lives in the present. He was so sick he couldn't even think well enough to do his homework. I don't think I would ever discuss the possibility of having cancer with my kids unless I actually had it. Iris is also an Invisible Illness Warrior. You are not important. Sorry guys, I just had to vent and get it out of my system. Or, the replacement part is put in upside down, backwards, inside-out, or having something broken on it, or in it. When you find out your spouse is seriously ill, its natural to feel overwhelmed by fear and confusion. But, he can't get past the victim hood yet.). Well, this time, I was calm, I got out of the car and changed my mind but he told me to get back in. What? Third possible explanation: your wife doesn't want to get sick and thus avoids you? For the first 23 years, I was weak, scared, blamed myself, cried til my face peeled from the salt, in some cases literally ran away to avoid his outburst toward himself, his violence to hiimself, his negativity. We don't have the physical stamina to FIX all this stuff, but he INSISTS on it, and won't let me call in professionals. I think that men get used to a female (their mother) taking care of them while they are children, and subconsciously they maintain this view as they get to adulthood. Submitted by Orbital Seattlite on Fri, 11/15/2019 - 14:40. Like so many of the other posts, writing this post and sharing my feelings is very therapeutic. He will leave and stay gone 2 hrs and not even so much ask if I need anything at all. WebPsychology Today: Health, Help, Happiness + Find a Therapist His kids are always going to come before you. I am not overwhelmingly rude or obnoxious or in his face. My husband is friendly and nice until I am sick. I dont expect to be doted on and coddled when Im sick, but some level of Or pulled a muscle in my back. I like the don't be upset if I pull a you on you comment. Have been married for 4years now. For many years, Larry Bocchiere cared for his wife, Deborah, who struggled with chronic obstructive pulmonary disease. Reddit and its partners use cookies and similar technologies to provide you with a better experience. Don't worry your anxiety to high and relax. Submitted by sickandtired on Fri, 12/11/2020 - 08:44. Alright. However I do notice every time I'm sick, my husband acts as if he sick. I do believe the process may work if it s just adhd or adhd lite and there aren't significant co morbidities or emotional, physical or substance abuse and life is stable otherwise, ie no major financial complications. He can't take me to hospital or buy me drugs with his money even when am crying in pain! Until you are burnt out, and I finally notice something is wrong. Later Ilet him know I am very sick and need some help. I had pre-marital sex before my first marriage and was pregnant when I got married. He is kind to the elderly detailing their cars and mine goes to the car wash. Should also consider the stress my wife is dealing with at work. Anyone that is a professional or been told by a professional whether this is one or the other? But then I noticed that when he's around other people he's never sick until he walks in the house. I hope you left him. All big red flags. You are not important. With my dh, he doesn't react well to any kind of situation when his filters are down (and always always at home) -- there was that time when I fell against a window in a freak accident -- breaking my humeris and dislocating my shoulder on the radiator at the same time. If you need help, I will cook dinner". The latter makes you miserable (as you know) and relies upon him to 'think of you' at a time when he's otherwise distractedif that makes sense. God, family/friends, my job, my health and then him. It's not just the ADHD, but he won't go get a full evaluation. in Psychology. I still picked up one of the children after school, and stopped off at a second hand shop to purchase crutches for myself - they almost rolled their eyes at that when they got home from work! I did not realize asking someone if they needed anything or just giving a comforting hug was petting. And I have failed you, but in finding your voice you have helped me find mine and now I see. He had the flu last year and I took care of him. Get out now and look for greener pastured. Because in his mind, I'm supposed to be taking care of him.not the other way around. When my wife is sick, I tend to wait on her. I said no. It seems to be the only time that a man can show weakness and it doesn't reflect his character. I was a great person to be around but the lies hurt and changed me. I wish he'd just admit he''s not the handyman he thinks he IS. Her father was an alcoholic, who was always shit-faced, and died suddenly after getting sick. Well, then, I say. I myself will say that women do get mad when they cook for you and she prolly didn't want it just said that out of to try to make you feel better. You are not on bed rest recovering from surgery, you have a common stomach bug. WebMy girlfriend thinks I don't care for her but I do she's been sick for the past two days and I been trying to be nice by doing mostly everything for her I have to walk her to the bathroom give her medicine wash dishes pick up her groceries try to cook even though I'm not that good at it I have to get the bathtub filled for her I try my best to The ADHD Effect on Marriage was listed in Huff Post as a top book that therapists suggest all couples should read. it's not the same as OCD. Then he kept telling me I was going to be alright. Barf and poop, rehydrate, and take care of yourself. Then I'd best not be an inconvenience complaining about it, and chores and errands still need doing (note that in either case, there's no tender care to aid recuperation). When my wife gets sick I take over and watch our daughters, 4 and 1, so she can sleep. My opinion only, but having to force connection, attention and time and be the driving force for a marital connection that is so basic. well, that seems hollow to me also. My husband would blame me for ruining his life. And no, it s not all about the relationship dynamics and avoiding my wrath, etc. I am a partner though, specifically yours. We havent heard from you in a while, and Im hoping you are ok. 3. You never waver. Threatening to get seriously ill and find ways to make dad a villainboth deeply traumatizing things to do to your own kids. Of course, he doesn't understand why I can't go run errands with him because it's not a big deal that I've got a slight fever. When a spouse is seriously ill, Bocchiere ever heard of obsessive compulsive personality disorder? This is the extent of OUR now/not now difference when it comes to love. Do you always expect your wife to cook everything? Haha I'm quite relieved to know even a couple who've been together for long have had to get through situations like this. Submitted by MelissaOrlov on Thu, 04/13/2017 - 17:29. By rejecting non-essential cookies, Reddit may still use certain cookies to ensure the proper functionality of our platform. Thanks a lot!" That lasted about 6 months for us and about 2 years for me to get over. Then I proceded to ( vomit all day and my my took me in to see the Doctor who told her that I had a rare case of the Mumps that went into my intestines ) and gave her some pills? SO did get angry at the slow healing process, and said this had better by done with by their birthday! I feel like with every post, I am reading about myself. Boy did we cry. I agree with Melissa's comment that it is good to be independent and emotionally detached, but that can become hollow. First of all, you have to stop with the drama of begging him to come take care of you! Are you sick often? I offered to set it up on his phone but of course he won't relinquish his phone, which is another story, and the primary basis of my divorce request. I only wanted to make things easier on myself, for three nights a week. :) Don't get it twisted, I wait on him hand and foot when he is sick and right away he said he felt a tickle in his throat. Other times? Its me, me and my illness, that dominate our life. I brought up water, Gatorade, and saltines, got him anti nausea meds, and told him to call or text if he needed me, but I was taking care of the kids who were puking Also, you aren't following proper stomach bug protocol Google it, first start with ice or very small sips of water. I do not think I will see a lasting change because myspousewith ADD is alwaysout for himself. I know my friends ahave been instrumental in plugging that gap for me. If I wasn't able to mock her and call her out in the moment, it might've developed into some nasty resentment. But don't be the version of youthat is currentlyin his face. Getting mad or saying nasty things when someone is sick or injured suggests the same disorders. Your partner sounds as if he's not good at transitions (i.e. A male. I hope your foot heals soon and that you're getting approriate sympathy and empathy elsewhere. Some people have zero bedside manner. I do believe he loves me. My son was also diagnosed with an NK Killer cell deficiency and had a very low count. I am ok. I am choosing my battles now and choose to disconnect my emotions from my reality and continue to progress, better myself and finally live. Some people grow up where you cuddle the sick person til they're better, other will have them stay in a room and slide in food like they're in prison, and everywhere in between. I feel like crap so I have no plans of running errands. In all honesty if a man has intentions (honest) true love intentions knowing that you will love his kids, as you love him then you would be first. But if I need or expect something maybe not so much because it wont register as now/love but as someone upset whether the upsetedness is valid or not. There is a lot going on in that active brain and it takes a lot of inward attention to keep going. I didn't nag on him, or hate him, or unkind. You kind of know when my appointments are, but ask me all the time, even though they are in your calendar. WebWe Damaged Our Relationship When We Forgot to Care For Each Other Then we would take turns blaming each other. I shouldn't have to and I take very good care of myself after 27 years and a complete role reversal. We already talked and we good now. He forgot the anniversary and then gave me roses and a card and said that when I left him, all his ideas for our 25th went in the garbage. If the ADHD'er is unwilling to get help then really it's not fair for the other person to be the only one to want to actively work at it. Overthinking when my DH doesn't even think about it is a waste of good energy. Talking to a friend may be helpful, but you might also consider discussing your feelings with a mental health professional. He would scream at me if I touched him that I was killing him. Because, recently he told me, he was "never IN LOVE with me", which changes this whole scenario for me TOTALLY. Whether it's romance, friendship, family, co-workers, or basic human interaction: we're here to help! Also, "he does not have time to deal with the insurance company or taking me to get a rental car the next day, so I will have to find my own ride to the car rental company". As hard as it was to be like, "Fuck, I have cancer," it was kind of even harder to come to terms with being such a useless pile of constant need. I drove myself to the urgent care centre, with the automatic transmission this time, and got it all wrapped up after the X-rays confirmed the break. Empathy, love, and Gatorade are amazing to have, but the rest is all you. to stand on my own and realize that until he gets help, this will not change and so it was time to live and grow and be "the mistress of my domain and my life". Best Sex Positions to Improve Your Sex Life. He never asked where I lived, we had dinner and I was excited thinking he would accept therapy or say sorry. Like come on "ladies" use your brain stop asking stupid questions if you're unhappy and it's bothering you to the point you have to ask then it's time to move on to something better. Recallingthe time I told him I was really sick in the morning before swim workout and he told me I had to go anyway? H's definition of love is thisafter I asked him "What does love mean to you?" I dont know why, but for some reason, you chose to love me, and illness or no illness, it doesnt even weigh on your opinion and feeling of and for me. Then came 2013, January. I get dizziness, irritability, mood swings, left sided weakness, severe nerve pain, and killer headaches with my autoimmune attacks. (Daddy issues?). Consequences. I woke him up at 2 am and said "Get your clothes on- take me to the hospital- I have text book appendicitis." That takes some effort, but is doable by almost all. Overall I think she has issues that a therapist would help with, but that will definitely end up in a fight. Here is my story: Hollow is a perfect word for a marriage with neglect and little attention. Stop selling your soul for sex, money or a sense of security. Life goes on, until Im better. I will keep that in mind. And vice versa. The unfinished projects and dreams. If your wife grew up like I did you are never going to be happy with the level of care she gives you, because its completely foreign to her. THAT ONE TIME was all a therapist needed to hear to identify a personality disorder. You carry on, steady through the storm. I am a loving, patient, kind person who wants a partner to weather the storms of life with. But there is something that hurts me so desperately, he acts like he doesnt care when Im sick. He was the only child in that family that didn't become chemically addicted to something, which he prides himself immensely for, instead of being "grateful" that he didn't become that. I wanted to hope that with me gone, and only him in the house, he would get to live the way he "wanted". Terms. You know nothing about my medication, my doctors information, my diagnoses. I was ready to leave and here I was, with another kind of affected person in my life. But know that people can take a while to be retrained to react differently. It was like neither of us care that we were damaging our marriage. We have our moments of some connection, but the feeling is still a bit hollow and short lived. When you're feeling a little better just tell her how it makes you feel when she ignores you when you don't feel well or are injured. New comments cannot be posted and votes cannot be cast. Anyway, I got way off track here. An the cycle continues. I scrolled through my phone contacts and one name popped out, an old mutual friend of ours. Submitted by adhd32 on Mon, 04/17/2017 - 13:56. That is my H 100%! (Statements I've heard dozens of times, and heard again this week). It's the thought that matters <3. We have elementary aged children and he works at a demanding job. I hope you left him. We already talked last night and we good now. I do attribute it to a personality disorder though, and not the ADHD, I see him as cold and heartless. He wrote me a letter saying how he fell in love in college, and she left him, and he didn't want to feel "that hurt" again, so he basically shut "that part" of himself down, so that he wouldn't FEEL that. The women (and a few men) who are married to someone with untreated or under treated ADHD all suffer from the something similar..A lack of love. Uggh. My husband had the worst tantrum in front of a third person. Well, yes, I have an Autoimmune condition that causes it. Of course, I got no help from him with ANYTHING for the 6 weeks my foot was in the cast. If you are in the full Submitted by dedelight4 on Sat, 04/15/2017 - 22:58. And that I was stuck in their recliner for near a week to keep my foot elevated - should have been longer but I moved my business back into my office to keep the agitation down. Any other time, is when he's lecturing me about his "thoughts" of what he is or isn't going to DO about something, but never any talk or inter-personal connections on things. You must have JavaScript enabled to use this form. It already feels very hollow after 27 years of being the mush in the marriage and being the romantic and making plans for us, movies (last week I made plans with him to see a movie and hours later he got sidetracked in his mancave and left me flat with tickets in hand at the theatre and said he lost track of time and felt a failure, I ceded and we got the next show after I cooled off in private), walks which he says he can't do because of his knee. I was always trying to coddle him, console him, all the while, since I was 17, begging him to get therapy for us or himself and refused, claiming that his bipolar mother was ruined by therapists. The one hoarding in the place you are trying to sell? (Different situation for the writer of this post.) I don't think it's right, but I think it's true. Anyway. Being intrusive and obnoxious so my partner would pay attention to me. 1) Shes never on your side. I even passed out in front of my kids on the floor, and they had to yell at him to help me. You're not the victim the kids are. You know, a "special" love. (again, fear). I do this sometimes. We can't FIX some of this stuff on our own. You may want to reflect on your needs when you are sick as an adult. Once the commitmenttothe work of a relationshipbecomes unappealing they revert back to old habits. I ended up driving myself to the hospital after a bout of painful colitis- three days of complete pain and suffering, did not even miss a day of work. We have no savings, no retirement, and if we sell our house, (which is only 12 years old) it's going to need a ton of work/money to get it sellable. The behavior, not the label, is what matters. ).the instant I said I didn't feel wellshe put her hand on my forehead.went..OMGgot a thermometer and took my temperature.as one might think one should do in a situation like that? Being Married to Someone Who Doesn't Care. I was about to turn 40 and here I was watching a grown man turn red in the face, speak horribly to himself for a broken scraper. This detachment causes children to grow up detached from making intimate friendships and relationships as an adult, to closely love others. Then, why the * are they looking for a life partner in the first place?. It was my truck. ADHD, doesn't give you the liberty of that most of the time. But god forbid he do anything out of his way for me. He made me pay that year for leaving. Communicate to your wife how much this sexless existence is torturing you because of your great love for her. And, to feel loved in return, you need to be sexual with each other. Jason and Maria want something entirely different out of the same marriage. His mother died from Alzhiemer's, but was bi-polar and whatever else. So I've (40m) been married ten years now and I love my wife (40f), but she has the most annoying behavior pattern whenever I am sick. Ive had back and chest pain on and off becoming more frequent. WebOne of the most common is a husband not being in tune with (or affected by) his wifes emotions. You may do better by asking her 'precisely' what you want from her when u are sick/hurt over and above her 'commentary'. Submitted by notgonnalosemyself (not verified) on Mon, 04/17/2017 - 14:07. We all WANT to be loved a certain way but I have just chalked it up to sometimes he can but most times he can't/won't. After my surgeries, I couldn't do ANYTHING. His answer was absolutely not. If you DON'T have any kids yourselfplease run extra far. Its good to have a healthy balance. If this happens once, it may not be a huge cause for concern. Yeah, he's not that thoughtful. I agree his kids should come first. But that was a lot of days for him to be unable to make any time for you. My hu Now he is fine with it, he got used to it and I feel its because I did not cave in to the codependency. But it's certainly something that could have become a serious problem if we didn't communicate. https://www.adhdmarriage.com/content/empathy-and-adhd, Submitted by c ur self on Thu, 11/26/2020 - 10:32, There are a tremendous amount of side effects when it comes to ADHD..The ability to show empathy may be present at times, and with certain individuals.Spousal empathy can be effected by numerous things.The first question we have to ask when it's not there isWhat state is the day to day relationship in?If the answer is Not great!Then that is one place you have to go with human beings, ADHD or not.But, hyper focus is a major player.Selfishness and self absorbed minds are major players.Distraction as well as addiction will also play a role if present.Some peoples lives (minds) so overwhelm them, there is little time to even attempt to see the big picture of life.(If the capability is even there). It gets to you after a while I feel lonely most of the day I get really depressed he wants me to clean up all the time when he goes (figues) but I am diagnosed with depression and anxiety it's hard for me to get up to doing simple tasks it's even harder when I have to do it on my own. Sometimes it's that they are 'inside themselves' - or inwardly focused as I call it. I begged and pleaded with him to let me homeschool him because he was so sick. explicit permission. My husband is such a baby when hes sick is a huge cliche in marriage in the media. My husband responded to me that if I went on medical leave I would have to stop seeing my doctor because he wouldn't pay for it anymore. He doesn't seem to catch up or even see it. Not showing care or concern for your spouse when they are sick, or injured is NOT an ADHD trait. He didn't. He finally, after our friends begged him to get therapy so he wouldn't lose a good woman, said he would go. 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